I’ve been talking about motivation a lot lately, and I’ve noticed that a major theme with people is that motivation is difficult to find when the world feels heavy.
And the world feels pretty heavy right now, doesn’t it?
So here’s what I have found helpful. Motivation does not have to be one thing. I think we have all learned that when you set a goal for yourself, you also have to find your “why”. For instance, “I want to eat healthier because I want to live a long life”. Sounds good…but…what happens on the days when you are sick, or tired, or the world is burning and you think to yourself “Maybe I don’t care if I live to 100 if that means I will be sick, tired or living in a fascist state”.
Suddenly, you might not feel so motivated to eat healthy.
So, instead let’s think about motivation as being a changeable thing. Some days you might wake up angry- maybe anger is your motivator that day. “I will violently crunch all the carrots!” Other days you might feel drained and tired- and making life simple might be your motivator. “I’m too tired to chew and I don’t want to cook; I think I will toss these carrots in the blender with some strawberries and ice cream.”
Work with what you have each day. Don’t try to force what you don’t.